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Just about ten months ago I stumbled into the blogging world. I had no idea what to expect then, and I’m still surprised sometimes at what I trip over.
There’s a lot of anger out there. Lines are drawn in the sand and sides are taken… male against female… generation against generation… class against class.
And sometimes there’s a lot of hurt pouring out of people. Life has fallen on some like an avalanche. They’re buried, battered and bruised, and can’t see the light of day anymore.
I want to say something that will help, something that will cool the anger and ease the pain, but the words just aren’t there for me. I’m not wise or learned. I don’t know any ancient secrets. I’m just some guy that lives in Michigan.
I walk around in circles and think. I putz around the place, straightening rugs and picking lint off the carpet. I swish at dishes in the sink while I look out the window at winter’s rigor. And still the right thing to say doesn’t come.
I guess that sometimes there is no right thing to say, that no words could ever help. So I’ll hold out the best thing I can think of instead.
– Here –
A wise friend once told me how the lotus plant grows up through the slimy mud at the bottom of the pond. The stalk breaks through the mud, then works its way up through the cloudy water. Once it reaches the sunlight the plant has everything it needs to produce these beautiful flowers.
– Here –
Hah! Not wise my ass. You’re one of the smartest dudes I know, “learned” or not.
And holy hell can you write. This is one of the most beautiful posts that I’ve read in a long time. Ever consider writing for a career? : )
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Oh, I’m a wise-ass, alright. 😉
Thanks, Stan.
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Thank you for being lovely, Tim.
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I’m a bucket of mush, sometimes. 😉
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Beautifully said Tim.
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Awww. Thanks, Puiyin. 🙂
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Nice one, Tim. Honest and simple stuff.
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Thanks, Gabriela. I’m a pretty simple guy, and try to be as honest as I can be. 😉
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“I want to say something that will help, something that will cool the anger and ease the pain, but the words just aren’t there for me.”—I feel that way sometimes too when I read a particular blog post. But I suspect the blogger is just happy to have you read their words and letting them know you stopped by.
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I guess I know that. Rips me up sometimes. I’m a big softy.
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Thanks for the goosebumps, Tim. I love what you wrote. You are mindful. I admire that.
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🙂
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Thanks for sharing, kind lady.
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That was very good…both in intent and execution.
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Thanks, Doug. 🙂
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I think you are indeed wise and learned.
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🙂
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Thinking about the nature of angst and of whining…thinking about T. S. Eliot. Thanks, Tim. I needed that.
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“April is the cruellest month.”
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You, not wise? Pft. Your words are concise but they carry volumes, and I’m sure everyone else you’ve interacted with thinks the same way. That was beautifully written, Tim. 🙂
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Thanks so much, Zen. It means a lot to me.
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I’m also lost for words sometimes when I read posts, but I think bloggers just like to know you’ve been there and are understanding (or trying to understand) what they’re feeling and saying. I love the lotus story – beautiful and poignant 😀
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Annie told me the lotus story. I wanted to pass it along, but didn’t know if she’d want her name mentioned.
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For some guy who lives in Michigan you do ‘here’ very well friend x
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Often what people need is not our words or wisdom but an empathetic ear whilst they work things out for themselves. I’ve often wondered how this can be provided online. Holding out the lotus flower is a wondeful gesture, Tim.
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